Happy May, kiddos.
These last few months have been quite the whirlwind for me personally. From dealing with awkward transitions to encountering unexpected surprises and even heartbreak, adulting for me has been realer than real. But more often than not, the good always outweighs the bad — which is always a blessing.
Below are a few cool things that have happened since my last post:
- Earlier in April, I took at 2-week hiatus from social media, and it was probably the best decision I had made in a while. Yes, I love Snapchat and Twitter just as much as the next millennial, but I found that I wasn’t getting a lot accomplished trying to keep up with everybody and everything. During my break, I noticed that time moves slower than usual when you aren’t tethered to your phone waiting for the latest update. I’m learning to use social media as a tool, not a validation of my ideas or success. It is definitely an exercise I highly suggest practicing on a quarterly basis.
- I participated in my friend Tyece Wilkins’ #WYAOApril challenge. While I didn’t complete all of the prompts, I did pen four pieces that challenged me to go there with my writing. You can read them here.
- I ran the Cherry Blossom 10-miler, and celebrated by hitting the cleanest milly rock that you ever did see.
- I sat on a millennial panel for Chianti Lomax’s “The Happy Pop-Up” event and it was just the positive experience I needed to remind me that I’ve got so much to be thankful for.
Each of these moments, while vulnerable in their own way, have taught me to fully embrace the discomfort and beauty that often comes with growing up. They also taught me that self-care is vital and that it is okay not to know what comes next. The important thing is to have faith in your ability to bring to life your dreams and ambitions.
This month in particular, I’ve promised to myself to be more consistent and intentional about posting in order to continue my growth as a writer. I want to be resourceful and provide you, the reader, with content that not only allows for me to share my authenticity and expertise, but gives you the opportunity to share who you are as well.
It’s only May 2nd, which means there is so much more for us to accomplish before the year is up. I will continue to operate from a place of gratitude and I hope that you do the same. Let’s keep it moving, shall we?
Love + light,